knew this was gonna be depressing

ironically the one i most feel sorry for, was Minato. he really is a good person, true and true - he had a crush on Aoba the sec he saw her, but he immediately noticed she only had eye's for Sakura. he wasn't mean or bitter but happily stepped aside, so they could develop their relationship. ********************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************************get Sakura's motivation - but lets face facts he did what he did for selfish reasons (justified or not) he was thinking only about himself. am glad he broke it off with Aoba, and didn't ghost her - but his reasoning is selfish and unfair, not only to her, his best friend but ironically mainly to himself. cause he still has feelings for her, and he pushed her away before giving her a chance to reject him. and now that she knows the real reason, even if she has moved on, her guilty conscience will take her back to Sakura - as if she was the one to abandon him, leaving Minato discarded at the side lines when he isn't to blame ***************************************************
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btw - the reason he doesn't verbally voice his grievance's at the end, isn't cause he's deaf and self-conscious about his voice (that usually happens to people who r deaf from birth) it's more to emphasize the dived between them and his point that, they can't communicate

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KINDNESS

Strangely both of them don't look Japanese at all! I can see signs of plastic surgery. ?~ The vibe of this drama feels quite different from your regular J drama.It's touching the neutral tone, and quality production it seems.~ Ah the irony after reading the title and synopsis. Him saying she's too loud, and her saying snow is silent (¬‿¬) *Sad Noises*2:55 Damn! What an aesthetic rainy scene right from the bed. Plus a new man next to her.And the rain is noisy.Clearly, there's a cinematographic highlighting here, the snow with him > the rain with this guy. 6:03 And everything went silent when she saw him 7:28 In such cases you do feel for the current guy, that's why always choose the right woman, not someone who's using you to technically get over her emotional mess.10:35 Ohhhh, so he deliberately changed the narrative 11:42 Ohhh, sting like a bee this guy ~ I mean for a guy that dumped her, she surely is still obsessed with him even after this long.23:22 Love the way she defined school. The place where you go consistently even if reluctant to.Great place to meet your crush xD35:00 I see. He must've felt pathetic and hence he decided to cut it off.A life without anyone's sympathy.40:20 I wonder if a deaf person can't hear obviously can't they read lips though? 43:56 Yep, the social construct and prejudice with such disabilities people automatically assume that you must be a kind person.His POV is spot on.~ Normally you would think where's the line b/w jealousy and kindness, coz he yearned for Aoba as well.~ Albeit both of them are kind indeed.It's not easy to be kind in today's world.It takes courage. And it's visible that she's hiding her grief. The more you reminisce and say but now I am not affected, the more you are.~ Okay so I read and did some research that later turns out deaf people can talk but they find it hard to modulate their vocal cords with time as they can't hear their voice while speaking which makes it difficult for them as time goes on.Hearing aid is available but not for everyone.~ I shouldn't be laughing in this serious scene, but he took her earbud with her.Bro, at least return it.~ Oh god, I felt for him when he gestured don't talk to me using your voice.54:04 DAMN !!! The contrast when she says I can't understand is baffling.

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