Physical Abuse is Wrong Regardless of Gender or Excuse

**This is just my opinion. I truly appreciate all of the hard work and dedication that went into the production of this drama. Thank you.**

This is less a review than me stating my objection to yet another female lead character abusing her love interest and it somehow being okay. I refuse to watch any more episodes.

First though, I have to say that the cast is very talented. I especially enjoyed Kim Seon-ho as Hong Du sik and Lee Sang-yi and Ji Seong-hyeon. It was produced well and has a pretty soundtrack.

The problems for me lie in the characters and story. It took me many tries to get through the first episode and until the fourth before I held out any hope for it to improve. The female lead character, Hye-jin, does always have a sense of integrity, even though I find it lacking. She is vain, shallow, pretentious, unfriendly and rude while also managing to occasionally be generous and kind. The male lead, Hong Du-sik, is a jack of all trades who bends over backwards to help everyone, is incredibly friendly and kind. I hated that she behaved so ungratefully towards Du-sik when he put so much effort into helping her. She improved some only to ruin it when they finally became a couple in episode 11. She didn't want the other villagers to gossip if they found out that she and Du-sik were dating so she physically assaulted him to "disguise" their physical closeness. It was ridiculous and so incredibly wrong. The writers didn't have her just hide or even shove him, though that would be wrong too. No, first she slapped him hard across the face to disguise wiping something off of his face. Then she kicked him so hard in the shins that she knocked him down and he was still hurting later. Later the same day she followed that up with head butting him and giving him a bloody nose. Seriously, what is wrong with them? How could any of that be okay or funny?

I almost wrote that I had an issue with him for taking it and stopped myself. It is never the victim's fault, even in a drama. His character is kind and a pleaser. It makes it that much more wrong for them to write it that way. What kind of message are you sending? People watch these shows and it affects how the behave or believe about themselves. There is already far too much physical violence towards loved ones in dramas. Some might argue that the things she did weren't that big of a deal. I couldn't disagree more. He was completely blameless. The things she did hurt him physically and emotionally. There's no excuse that can justify it. I don't understand the need to put that kind of thing into this drama. What purpose was it suppose to serve? She could have said he had something smeared on his face, etc.

After watching those scenes I didn't want to watch any more. That's just me.

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