Sorting the proverbial wheat from the chaff of MDL low-rated dramas is always hard. But this is one of those totally underrated dramas that probably got low marks because it does not portray mr and ms perfect living HEA. Instead it explores the messy dynamics of grown up relationships and the strange choices we sometimes make that lead us into places we did not even realise existed.

If you’ve been round the clock a couple of times there’s going to be moments in this drama that bring a wry, knowing smile to your face, that are probably totally inexplicable to the inexperienced. And that’s what makes this drama work for me: the writer knows what he is writing about and it shows.

It explores the blindness that exists in all of us when we fail to realise that other people, even those we are intimate with, live in a world that is separate from our own. They are different, yet we do not clock those differences but make assumptions about what they think and feel based on what we ourselves experience, or the mistaken perceptions we have of them.

The reasons why people stay together isn’t always obvious and the hidden needs which outweigh the disadvantages, hurts and confusions are given an airing. The drama reveals and explores the overinflated price we are willing to pay to hang onto our emotional vulnerabilities so that we don’t have face them and what happens when we decide not to meet the cost any more.

Four characters, in two couples, with fundamental flaws are forced to face themselves, learn about their partners and embrace the responsibility they bear for their three-wheeled relationship going round in circles and falling apart.

This is an awesome cast, totally capable of revealing the comedy and the pathos with equal ease. Lee El and Son Suk Ku, who appeared together in the brilliant My Liberation Notes, are joined by Bae Doo Na and Cha Tae Hyun (who is new to me). They all have a handle on how to unroll a character and dig into the murky undercurrents and here is no exception. Although they all add something to the night sky, Bae Doo Na outshines the other stars in the constellation. Her ability to take you through the whole range of emotions and fully realise the character written in the script is outstanding.

Ultimately it’s an optimistic drama that manages to keep its head above the heaviness that such a topic could fall into, and that’s credit to the writer Moon Jeong Min who ensures a healthy vein of dry humour runs through the storyline. It carries the viewer through the difficulties that the reality of the situation demands and offers some light relief in whimsical arguments often fuelled by jealousy and competitiveness. In the hands of a capable cast, this is just a delight.

The script is sometimes patchy and meandering, and the symmetries that kick in about three quarters through are almost a stretch too far, but tbh I was willing to ride with it because it was so well acted. It can be whimsical and the number of coincidences goes from being off-putting to sort of deliberate, such that the whole thing is an intricate tangle of relationships which ravel and unravel around each other.

Moon Jeong Min’s insight into the female characters is praiseworthy and if anything, he wrote them better than the male characters. He was ably assisted by the director, Soo Hyun KI, who struck the right note with the melo such that when it needed to bite the impact had not been forestalled by previously overcooked emotions. Each character had their moment of intensity and it did not go to waste.

Overall this drama is not outstanding but well worth watching. If you are looking for dreams, go elsewhere, but if you like an honest view on messy human relationships between ordinary people with a dash of insight it will not disappoint.

I’m torn about the rating, but because there are so few K-dramas that successfully deal with this topic in a realistic and sensitive manner, I’ve decided to be generous